Diplomat's Spouse turns Law Teacher!

I have been home for almost two months. Also, I'm currently commuting to my workplace. This means, I'm no longer a diplomat's spouse in my home country, instead I'm now back as a law teacher @My alma mater. Indeed, I truly love these alternating jobs. Alhamdulilah, all my gratitude to Allah SWT The Al Mighty for all the opportunities which You've granted upon me.

I reported duty at my faculty and soon did courtesy call to my Dean and later  met with my colleagues and other administrative staff. The feelings to be @LawFac again were awesome! Since it was examination time, most of my colleagues were busy invigilating as well as did their markings! I had my share as invigilators too and during break time, it was an opportunity for 'catching-up' moments with lovely friends. Seven years stories to be consolidated within a few hours! But, we did with full of 'wow!'; 'huh'; 'ye ke?'; 'really?' and ended up with string of laughters!

As time passed by, I received my work loads to teach the postgraduate students. I was told that classes are to be in the evenings which I readily accepted. I was fortunate to have a truly understanding PD. Since I need more teaching hours to accommodate the weekly workload, my C'nato approached me if I wish to teach my old subject PiL, which I readily accepted too. But, I truly need to brush up and get ready before term starts in two weeks time. Seven years away from work! Well, I have to start slowly with gear one before eventually zooming to gear five! Alhamdulilah, I'm blessed with wonderful friends who are always there to render their helping hands. Thank You my friends for your endless support and most importantly for the materials which you shared with me. 

When I arrived home this evening with a set of books which I borrowed from PTAR, and later neatly arranged them side by side  with my own books in my 'office' I silently said to myself, "Mus, I gonna write another blog LawTeacher, to be shared with my students!" Indeed, I was lucky. My intention or wish was fulfilled when my dear DIL came and set a blog for me. Thank You my Dear FM! 

In no time, I shall be able to write about something which is  closed to my heart i.e. about my life learning and teaching law as well as anything that relates to this field, bearing in mind only or limited to the area which I know and had some knowledge. Insyallah, with His Grace. Amin.

Some of the materials to be read, absorbed and shared with my students :D

Memorable Weekends @Duqm - 2

The wonderful journey and moments of enjoyment at Duqm continued much more after Mr Right and I reached the 5* Crowne Plaza Hotel. Upon arrival at the lounge, we were warmly welcomed by the hotel staff who soon served us with truly cool drinks to quench our thirst though in the coach we were already served with bottled drinks. Thank You to our great host MOFA and the Duqm Crowne Plaza management team for their ever warm welcoming hospitality! 

Some of our colleagues took the opportunity to scout the hotel green grounds while the others relaxed on the various seats available for guests while waiting for the room keys and handling of our luggage by the porters. At the same time most of us still could not stop from sharing and comparing notes about our experience of flying 1hr 20mins in the Charlie! It was also once in a life time experience for many of us especially the DS like me. Hence, I am truly Thankful and Blessed for the opportunity. And, most of all my gratitude goes to my Mr Right who insisted that I should join the trip. 

After we received our individual room keys, we parted and headed to our rooms for a short rest. But we told to come down for lunch at 1noon, and later to be ready by 3pm for an evening visit to Duqm Port. Well, once I reached the assigned room, I felt blissful with its beautiful deco and lay out. I admired its grand bed and comfy beddings. Also, a basket full of fresh crunchy fruits were waiting to be consumed. 

A pleasant surprise of Omani sovenir was also neatly laid on the table for us to take home in a form of picture frame comprised of the ever symbolic dagger the Kanjar along with a beautiful card "Welcome to Duqm." And, overlooking the balcony I saw a scenic scenery which was facing the spread green palm garden and the wide blue ocean! Oh! Life there was exceptionally tranquil and blissful on that beautiful afternoon. The scenic view becomes more spectacular in particular at night with the full moon above our heads during Dinner Time, and for that I Thank Al Mighty Allah SWT for the happy hours and minutes spent with Mr Right in this blessed land. Amin.

But before the night came where we were invited to a formal dinner hosted by the Deputy COP of MOFA, we were invited to a guided tour to Duqm Port which was not far from the hotel which we stay. For that occasion, I decided to wear a much more comfortable attire a maroon top with a blue pants and a matching comfortable shoes since we were told that we might be taken for a walk to view the dry dock and later the port. 

The journey from the hotel to Duqm Port only took us less than half an hour, but along the road we witnessed the development of Duqm as an industrial city with many buildings being built. In fact, I was made to understand that the Oman Tourism Development Company is striving to increase tourism into the 'oil town' which I truly feel was a wonderful move.

When we finally arrived at the port, we were once again given a VVIP treatment by the Organisers. Refreshments were served with lots of canapés, savoury desserts and delicious cookies as well as many different types of mouth-watering cakes apart from coffee and tea just after a short but informative, educational and useful presentation about Duqm Port by its Dutchman Commercial Director, Reggy Vemeulen. 

More information about Duqm Port, we were informed that it has "undergone development" and a ship building facility to facilitate the port had already been built. In fact, Jan De Nul Group was entrusted to develop the area in particular to improve the breakwaters and quay wells. Referring to the performance of the port in handling cargos, Mr Vermeulen narrated that the port has handled almost a hundred cargo ships since it commenced early operations, which was truly impressive. 

While touring the Duqm Port, I was fascinated by the views of it which was ultra modern.  It was equipped with a Ship Repair Yard and Dry Dock Facility, which is first of its kind in Oman. From the short presentation by its Director, the Dry Dock was operated and managed by the Port of Duqm Company, S.O.A.C. And, it's main aim is to be a strategic commercial port on the Arabian Sea. 

Throughout my tour to the Port area, not only the buildings and a number of VLCC caught my eyes, but most of all as the sun goes down, the sights of crimson intertwined with mandarin coloured sunsets was feastful to my Chinese eyes which in one sentence connotes 'spectacular'! This part of my first day stay in Duqm was enchanting and truly memorable. Pictures which I snapped on that day spoke a thousand words :D

Briefing session by the Port Authority and Management

Walkabout along the Duqm Port with Mr Reggy Vermeulen and a snap with Mr Right for remembrance!

A VLCC in one of the dry docks waited to be repaired ...

When the sun goes down, my heart beats faster yet tranquil ...

After more than two hours exploring the Duqm Port and visiting its dry dock, I looked forward to an eventful dinner back at Crowne Plaza Hotel. Since the weather was cool at night, the dinner was held outside under a bright moonlight and with lots of brightly decorated lamp posts and sea of candle lights that made the dinner area truly a spectacular scene for the eyes! Oh! The spread of foods both western and middle eastern cuisines prepared by the Chef were exceptionally delicious and definitely fulfilled my hungry belly. The cool breeze from the sea also added to the good appetite. Indeed, I ate more than the usual days for an evening meal yet, I never regretted! I walked back to my room with full stomach and heavy eyes after greeting good night to my colleagues who were in the same situation as me! Indeed, we all had a great day together, though hectic but full of fun and laughter. 

Till today, I could still picture the fantastic and spectacular sights of both Duqm Port and the welcoming Crown Plaza garden which were feast to my  eyes and kept lingering on my mind. Yeah! I was mesmerized and amazed by Duqm's natural beauty. 

A feeling of 'paradise' surrounded by enchanting lights :D

Memorable Weekends @Duqm - 1

In a month's time, both Mr Right and I will be heading home-sweet-home after seven years abroad. We truly looking forward to set foot again in MotherLand. We also shall take home with us memorable memories of our lives staying in Muscat for the past three years since our arrival in May 2011. And, one of the beautiful memories was a 'paradise feeling' of a weekend stay in Duqm! It was once a small fishing settlement of Janubah tribe in Oman, but now has turned into an industrial oil town with a notable port. 

It all started in early April this year when I was visiting my children and attending my niece Wedding in Shah Alam, when my better half called me late one night and said, "We (all Head of Missions) received an invitation by MOFA to visit Duqm!" And, my spontaneous reply was "When? And How?" Immediately Mr Right responded, "Darling, in two days time and via Charlie! Do you want to join?" At first, I was skeptical to change my ticket and wasn't really interested to join the all-paid-for familiarization tour. Yet, on second thought, I quickly replied to him that I'll try my best to get my flight ticket from KL to Muscat changed. If Oman Air allowed it without any extra charges, I will definitely join him. Just give me till morning time for me to sort the matter out and I will give him the thumb's up! Alhamdulilah, when I contacted Oman Air, they have no problem at all to change the ticket and without much hassle they quickly emailed me with the new ticket! Thanks to the virtual world where most things could be done online :D

So, I boarded the plane back to Muscat and was happily received by Mr Right at MIA arrival lounge. The welcoming smile and quick kiss showed that he was very pleased that I was finally home to accompany him on the Duqm trip! It was on late Wednesday evening. And, the flight to Duqm in a military Charlie was to take off on the very next morning at 10.10am, but we had to assemble in the airport by 9am. Hence, I had no time to think of jet lagged! Instead, I was truly excited 'dreaming' to go on board the military plane. A First to me! And, there went my sleepless night with a definitely bright grin ...

The next morning, without much sleep or just 'tidor-tidor ayam' style, I woke up at dawn and was ready for the exciting trip. Soon both of us were ferried in the official car to the Military Airport and was warmly welcomed by the Deputy COP of MOFA and other officials. Also, I was truly delighted to once again see the happy faces of my husband's colleagues and their ever sporting and welcoming spouses who had missed my presence in Muscat although I only went home for just two weeks! But, it seemed like I had been home for ages. After all the friendly greetings and huggings, we were ushered into the huge beautiful hall by ever welcoming Omani lady officers where we were soon served with the Omani coffee and halwa. It was a warm welcoming showered upon us the usual Omani hospitality, which I truly admired and respected! 

Just before we boarded the Charlie at 10.10am sharp, the lady officers came to us and informed that there's no 'toilet facilities' inside the plane. Since the flight shall take approximately 1hr 20mins, hence it was advisable to ease ourselves before we boarded the plane. Also, the journey from Duqm Airport to Crowne Plaza where we gonna stay for the weekend will take another 45mins ride by bus, I told myself that I should not take any chance of 'self-accident' or any untoward incidence inside the plane. So do my other friends and their spouses. 

Soon it was time for us to board the huge 'cheloreng' Charlie which has four fans with a black spot dolphin nose and two big engines that could accommodate about hundred passengers - we, the diplomats and spouses plus our host, the Organiser, the Security Personnels and Officers from MOFA. When I first saw the 'Charlie' on the Tarmac I was truly excited and feeling  'Jakun'! But, Mr Right was exceptionally cool for he had been inside Charlie and had good ride in it several times. Anyway, he felt excited for me and could not stop from snapping my pictures using both the iPhone and iPad! Indeed, I thank you, my Mr Right. You always know how to make me happy and put grins on my face :)

Mr Right & I on our way to 5* Memorable Trip in Duqm <(•^•)>

Inside the flight, all of us who were mostly first timers could not help ourselves from feeling excited. We kept snapping pictures of ourselves using digital gadgets and mobile phones the ever popular iPhones, iPads and other Tablets. Some were feeling afraid since the seating set up wasn't like normal plane and had to cling on their spouses arms although I believed we were all fully strapped with strong metal seat belts! After all the excitements intertwined with anxieties, coupled with high humidity inside the Charlie, most of us fell into deep sleep before we finally arrived our intended destination - the Duqm Airport! When the plane landed, we found ourselves - Oh! Wow! We were in the middle of the desert with no sign of other buildings except the hangar for the planes! 

But, the ever ready Organisers had made available two comfortable 5* Coaches for all of us to be ferried to our ever beautiful 5* Crowne Plaza Hotel which was about 56km from the airport. And, just after I boarded the cozy coach, I was feeling a little uneasy because I badly needed the 'washroom' yet I had to patiently wait for another 45minutes journey by road till I finally reached the final destination! Oh! Boy :D. What a long wait where I have to savour the emptiness of both sides of the well tarred road. Yet, I felt truly elated when I saw the bold print 'Crowne Plaza Hotel' and quickly took the opportunity to click a picture of it from inside the moving cozy coach! 

Aghh ... Feeling 'lega' and blessed surrounded by fresh air from the palm garden and truly cool swimming pool facing the true blue Indian Ocean!

Art of Saying Thank You!

I have not posted or updated my blog for sometime. Perhaps three months or so since the last posting. Actually, I had scribbled some words here and there, yet I wasn't sure to share or not to share, hence they remained as drafts! Also, I was thinking of what suitable material to post and share '(•^•)'

Until today, when I was invited to give a talk and share parts of Malay Culture to ISC Ladies Wing in Muscat. And, I chose to share the Art of Saying Thank You - the MusWay!

As a DS abroad, I always feel it is my duty to share with others and international colleagues who wish to know more about Malaysia and its diversified traditional cultures based on its multi ethnic groups. So, I began my talk with a very simple introduction of where Malaysia is located and its multi racial population that live peacefully and harmony despite its different race, different religion and different skin colour.

Then, I narrowed down the scope to just the culture of the Malay Community which form the majority or half of the Malaysian population. It centered on MalayWeddings  and 'Majlis Cukur Jambul & Berendoi' for newborns. I touched on the processes of the common Malay weddings from Merisik to Bertunang and followed by Majlis Akad Nikah, Majlis Berinai, and the Majlis Bersanding Ceremony. I also took with me some samples of Bunga Rampai and Bunga Telor and distributed to the audience as well as demonstrating the talk with the assistance of pictorial slides for easy visualization and understanding of the subject matter which I wished to share with them.

I shared with my audience the art of Merisik where poetry words or Bahasa Kiasan were normally used instead of direct asking for the Bride's hand! For example, the representives from the groom's side would start with a phrase such as "We come from afar. Another district and another town. And, in here we saw there is a beautiful blooming flower in your garden! If it is not being booked or taken, we would like to seek for permission from the rightful owner to pluck it on behalf of a waiting gentleman (the to-be groom)."

Then, the representative of the bride-to-be will answer such as "We have many blooming flowers in this garden. There is a red rosé, a jasmine and even a budding water lily. Which of these flowers your gentleman is interested in?" This question may then be answered with a sentence like "Oh! Our young gentleman prefers the young budding water lily." These phrases of poetic questions and answers will go on and on until both sides settled to an agreement. 

Indeed, this new knowledge of poetic like 'merisik' event was something new to my audience staying in Muscat, and I truly felt good sharing with them. In actual fact, I learnt this art of 'merisik' indirectly from my late Nyai who was once a 'Mak Andam' in Happy Village. She used to tag me along with her when she represented many grooms-to-be families as a spokesperson in asking hands for the brides-to-be from their families. In fact, this art is still practiced among the Malay families in Malaysia, which was later followed by Majlis Bertunang or Getting Engaged when the Merisik event has been accepted, especially through the show of acceptance of the Tepak Sirih, which comprised of betel leaves, betel nuts and edible limestone. 

During my presentation, I also shared the processes of Majlis Menyarung Cincin both during Merisik and Bertunang time. In most cases, it is usually done by the mother or paternal grandmother of the to-be-groom. Once the ring has been successfully placed on the to-be-brinde's finger, she will show her acceptance, gratitude and respect to her future in laws by kissing their right hand. Hence, she is then officially known as the fiancé of so and so! 

Normally the engagement period varies from three to six months and sometimes one year before the Majils Akad Nikah or Solemnization actually take placed. This depends on the arrangement made by both sides of the families. They usually prefer the time for Solemnisation and Wedding Ceremonies during school holiday seasons where they truly need ample time to make invitation to guests and tedious preparation for the grand event. 

Indeed, wedding ceremonies within the Malay community are very important event to the brides and grooms since it is always hoped to be just once a life time experience. They are called the Raja Sehari or The King and Queen for a Day! More offen then not they are treated as 'true King and Queen' during their wedding day where all things are done to them by other people. It is indeed a life time experienced by all newly-wed couples who were beautifully dressed in their wedding attires and adorned with glittering Jewellery and also sat shyly on the well decorated dias and surrounded by families from both sides!

It is also here, the art of saying thank you to our guests who came to the wedding ceremonies applied. When the invitees were invited to give their blessings to the newly-wed couples on the dias, in return they will receive a bunga telor to be taken home. It is a gesture that symbolizes the heartfelt Thank You from the couple's families to their guests who took precious time off from their daily works just to attend the gathering and give their blessings at the wedding ceremonies. The bunga telor is actually a handmade flower usually made of gold or silver papers which then turned into a beautiful flower. On it will be a neatly covered hard boiled egg in a lace sack and carefully hang onto the flower! I was told by my late Nyai that a hard boiled egg symbolizes fertility, hence by giving our guests who attended the wedding ceremony as 'buah tangan'  it is hoped the newly-wed couple will be blessed and cherished with children. 

Together with the bunga telor, in most wedding ceremonies and at the Majlis Cukur Jambul occasions, a bag of Bunga Rampai is also handed to the guests before they left for home as a show of deepest and hearffelt appreciation for their presence.  Bunga Rampai is liken to aromatic potpourri which has beautiful fragrance. It comprises of sweet smelling finely sliced green pandan leaves and colourful mixtures of fragrance flowers such as red roses, white jasmines, yellow kenanga, dahlia and sprinkled with sweet scented perfumes or agar wood essence! 

On this wonderful and examplary gesture of Saying Thank You to the guests, I personally believe it is part of the beautiful Malay Culture to show respect and appreciation by giving someone who came to rejoice the happy occasions. What better way to show our gratitude to our guests who came to our functions than giving them a simple yet truly 'Ikhlas' from the heart as cute as Bunga Telor and as sweet fragrance as Bunga Rampai as the Buah Tangan. They made everyone happy - both the giver and the recipient! 

Hence, I did the same. Just before I end my short presentation, as a show of Thank You to be invited to share some Malay Culture and Experience to the fun loving and attentive audience, I too distributed some Bunga Telor and Bags of Bunga Rampai as remembrance. I truly thankful to the Organisers for the opportunity to share with the ISC Ladies Wing :D

A snap taken with ISC Ladies Wing and the wonderful Organisers Madam Bridget Ganguly and Madam Aditi Nadgauda.

Sawadee Kap: ALC Ladies in ThaiLand!

If the first ALC Get-2-Gather for 2014 was held in a formal manner liken to an AGM@Brunei House, the second was more casual with just white tops with long pants or simply jeans and sarongs! We were enjoying the cool breezy morning in ThaiLand and was greeted warmly with Sawadee Kap  or Hello in Thai language. It was the brainchild of all members who came out with many ideas and themes for our events. 

Indeed, in today's get-2-gather as in our previous meetings, the strong bond of ASEAN solidarity and togetherness were truly felt by all. Since the day of its establishment almost a year and half ago, the registered members have worked as a team and all decisions were based on consensus which was exceptionally awesome and delightful! 

Today's event saw all ladies from the six ASEAN nations came not empty handed, instead with potluck foodies both savory and desserts while our ever smiling hostess and her ladies prepared the venue and other refreshments at her green back garden full of fresh flowers, pandan leaves and tall banana trees, facing the sandy beaches in Shatti Qurum. Mrs Capt, Ms Y and I contributed our most popular Malaysian cuisine the nasi lemak bungkus together with dadeh as the dessert. Our hostess the ever hospitable ThaiLand prepared refreshing fish ball soup as starters for all to savour. They also prepared beautifully decorated chocolate cakes as desserts! Indeed, I fell in love with the intricate and beautify designed sweet course that surely conclude a wonderful meal :D

Brunei came with her most sought after fried vermicelli and nicely rolled kuih ketayap which were scrumptious and mouthwatering, followed by Singapore with their delicious kuih bakar Kemboja. Then came our friends from the Philippines who brought along a truly succulent  grilled chicken which complement well with the nasi lemak. They also made lovely Filipino noodles which we adored! 

And, of course not forgetting the Indonesian ladies surprised us with tasty macaroni and lip smacking kuih pau! But it seems that all those hearty and superb dishes still weren't enough for the ladies because on the Buffett tables were healthy natural coloured fruits as 'pencuci mulut' or finale although some preferred to have them as starters. 

All in all, the supposed breakfast turned brunch was delightful to all the ALC ladies! And, while we were having our brunch we shared stories, jokes and more often than not we shared recipes from each other. In fact, I was fascinated with one of our friends who among us was the 'Best Chef!' So, we probed her on how she started to like cooking? She revealed that she comes from a family who did catering business but when she was young, she was the pampered one and like other teenagers at that time who were busy with studies and what nought, so cooking wasn't her forte or perhaps the least in her mind. 

Yet, the secret of cooking and all started when she got married to a wonderful man and indeed she wanted to impress her late MiL. So, she took the big leap and tried to cook foodies for her. But her first soup was too sweet and Oh! She was feeling Helpless and Cried. Luckily, her elder sister was nearby and came to rescue or in other words to  're-cook' for her which she then served to her MiL and Wallah - she received a thumb's up and good praise :D. Similarly, she also tried to impress her MiL again with Black Forest cake as special dessert  but it turned out like 'flowing lava' which made her eyes welled with pearly tears! But, this time she did not lose hope and intelligently  instead convinced her niece to buy a ready made  sweetie Black Forest fit for her MiL which brought wide smiles to her motherly face. 

Although she was happy that her MiL loved her 'cooking' yet she did not feel right nor good inside her heart because the foodies weren't hers. Thus, she finally got the courage and told her MiL the truth and fortunately in returned her MiL taught her the secret of cooking, which to this day she has mastered it. Wow! Bravo my friend and after listening to her inspiring little secret all of us wish and aspire to follow our dear friend's foot step. Insyallah.

While still savoring the luxurious hearty desserts Kuih Pau and Kuih Ketayap with Asian style tea or famously known as teh tarik on this beautiful day with cool breezy air surrounding us, we also thanked His Almighty for not only the fascinating brunch for the 'ravenous' tummies, but most of all for the wonderful time out together which we spent and enjoyed. It was as the Latin says carpe diem for all of us :) 

To 'wrap up' the day, we also had quiz Know Thy Neighbours competition among the members. It was fun and hilarious! They were simply quizzed inter alia, what are the national flowers of their neighboring countries, the capital cities and names of popular dance or well known festivals, etc. It was more of a general knowledge thingy and yet the ladies did 'crack' their minds and brains to remember and memorize the Head of States' names, the full names of the current Ambassadors and their spouses and others! That was exceptionally awesome gals. For I strongly believe, to know our neighbour is to love our neighbour! 

In sum, it was an interesting and stimulating exercise for the minds. As the saying implies, we don't only need Foods for Bodies but we also need Foods for Thoughts! So, we finally killed two birds with just one stone > savoring healthy homemade foods while shaping our heathy minds! Finally, to all ALC Ladies, till our next get-2-gather, I Thank You Dear Friends for I truly enjoyed our day out and brunch this morning. Long Live ALC!

 

ALC Group Photo for remembrance!

Snap shots of the home cooked delicious foodies by ALC members. Bon Appetite!

Malaysian representatives with our lovely hostess. Big Thank You, Madam D!

ACM & ALC in Muscat!

2014 is an important year for us in Oman. Coincidentally, for both of us this auspicious Year of the Horse will be our turn to be Chairpersons for the ASEAN organizations ACM and ALC, an acronym to ASEAN Committee in Muscat and ASEAN Ladies Circle respectively. The handing over of ACM by the Ambassador of Indonesia to Mr Right was done at the Indonesian residence last 30th December 2013, whereas for ALC will be done by the spouse of the Brunei Ambassador at her residence to me on 10th February 2014! 

With the appointments, we happily accepted the trust and thus have to shoulder the duties and responsibilities that are 'bestowed' upon us. Insyallah we will do our very best for the organizations which we are entrusted with and to deliver our best deeds as best as possible to the registered members of the six ASEAN countries which have embassies in the Sultanate of Oman, namely Brunei, Indonesia, Malaysia, Philippines, Singapore and Thailand. 

This morning Mr Right chaired his first ACM working committee meeting at Rumah Malaysia where among others he had scheduled the events for the first half of 2014 which included formal meetings for Ambassadors and Committee Members to discuss common issues and similar interests on ASEAN, Family Day and Familiarization Tour to some places in the Sultanate of Oman which will be of beneficial interests for all members.

At the same time, today the ALC President came to my residence for a short discussion of the incoming ALC meeting tomorrow, which include among others the handing over of the Presidency and selection of new Committee Heads. We also verbally discussed some social events to be tabled at the ALC Committee Meeting which include visits to places of interests in Muscat and sporting events. We truly looked forward to meeting our colleagues and prayed for the success of the organizations. Amin.

The day finally comes! At 10.30am on Monday the 10 Feb 2014, I accepted the responsibility as Chairperson for ALC in Muscat from the previous leader. It was based on rotational basis for one year duration. The transition was smooth. Soon after we appointed the other Committee Members namely Singapore to take care of ALC Financial Matters, Indonesia to be incharged of Social Affairs, Thailand will be responsible for visits and trips, Brunei will now look after Sports events and the Philippines will take care of publicity and also update of our activities. All in all, the members are happy with the line up and look forward to seeing each other with more get-together events. 

It is note worthy that although ALC in Muscat comprised of only handful persons yet the feelings of togetherness and warm solidarity were truly felt among the members. In fact, a line of activities were already proposed and discussed which among others to hold monthly meeting by each country on rotational basis as well as other social events which include garden party during the month of cool season, a trip to an Omani vegetable farm, living a healthy life style through sports' activities and having brunch at one of the cafes in town! 

We also gave a thought of organizing another  ALC charity bazaar for those in need when the time comes. I personally feel all the activities which are in the pipeline will draw us to each other closer, more knowledge and better understanding of other nation's culture and tradition as well as to assist whenever we could in the name of charity and compassion to those in need within our community or any friends within our ability and capability to assist in this hospitable land.  With the will and power together with strong bond and strength as a group, I believe ALC will do well for its members in Muscat. Amin.

I thanked all ALC members for the strong support they gave me and prayed our 2014 activities could be carried out smoothly and successfully. Insyallah :)

HE the Ambassador of Malaysia hosted first ACM Committee Meeting for 2014 @Rumah Malaysia on 9th February 2014.

Appreciate Life!

Our life is precious. As for me, the older I get, the more I look into my inner self and the more I appreciate life ...

It's weekend again. I was asking myself what to do to pass my time till tomorrow comes? I must do something good that's beneficial to me and to my loved ones. Especially when we do not know how long will we live? I'm not getting any younger. Silvery grey already crowns my then black hair. I could also feel the ache on some parts of my body.  

But Alhamdulillah, to my knowledge I do not have any serious illness, and for that I am exceptionally grateful to Allah SWT. I know that time flies and age is catching up! I am already in my fifties. It's just a matter of time for His calling - now or a little later. Yet, I am truly grateful for the wonderful life the Almighty Allah SWT had granted to me in this worldly world. My prayer that my life in the hereafter will be better than here. Insyallah.

And, I am also feeling closer to meeting Him especially when yesterday I just received news from my friend that my former classmate had just passed away leaving behind a widow and children. He was just two years my senior. My husband knows him too. Although we both are feeling the loss of a friend :( Yet, we know The Almighty Allah SWT loves him more. Al Fatihah to HD. 

Anyway, for us who are still breathing we thank him for the extra time. It means we could do more good deeds, more time for prayers and supplications, not late yet to ask for His Mercy and Forgiveness, to make right what is wrong, to forgive others who have been wrongful to us, spend time with our loved ones, to appreciate our life more and give what we could to the needy. Insyallah, we'll feel good and blissful and more ready to face Him.

Hence being a DS who is trailing her spouse, apart from fulfilling my duties and responsibilities to my nation, the other time spent were with my better half. I truly appreciate my life spending with him. It has been six years consecutively that I took leave from my job to be with  him. Never once that I regretted my decision. Instead I'm truly delighted for the opportunity to be a full time housewife to be tagged along by him to all the places he went. Be it for official or leisure, he always wanted me to be by his side. Alhamdulilah. 

And, the same when we were at home. My place was always within his arms' reach. We spent time together especially on weekends! We loved watching movies while embraced in each others' arms. I loved listening to him whenever I watched war or historical movies for he has vast knowledge on many subjects. For a person who is only a year older than me, I always feel 'inferior' when compared to the knowledge he had, yet I am truly fortunate to have him to share what he knows with me! We talked, we laughed and we teased each other just like old days :D

And today, I want to spend precious time with my significant other who makes me smiles and laughs every now and then even on simplest jokes! We woke up early. We sent off someone important at MIA. We had breakfast together. I prepared coffee with a platter of keropok lekor since he does not want lunch. We watched documentary The Great Moguls, their glory, the war, and the down fall. 

Similarly for dinner, he doesn't want heavy foodies except something simple, so a mug of cardamon tea with belinjau crackers were served. Other than that there's our favourite Malteaser chocolates and mazola cookies for snacks. And together we happily snuggled in front of the 52in TV and watched Red Cliffs! Indeed, my gratitude to Allah SWT for the good health, sound minds and happy life as bright as the blooming hibiscus which we are enjoying :D

A blooming hibiscus which was in our garden. Bright and beautiful :D

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A well said quote by JW that reflected our happy life! TQ :)

Good Read from HRH

It was breezy night @Chedi. Although it was rather dark outside the restaurant, yet with clear sky and beautiful moonlight plus the bright lanterns shining over us, the spot which we had our dinner was perfect. What more when we were honoured to be invited by HRH to have a private dinner overlooking the Indian Ocean. Not everyday that we could meet HRH. Perhaps, if we are lucky and with Allah SWT will and grace, it may be once in our life time. 

But fortunately for us, this was our second time being invited to a dinner with HRH.  The first was in one of the famous restaurants in London. There, while eating my foodies I was admiring the glass bottles of the artesian water from Norway. The Grand Chamberlain saw my interest and he quickly requested the waiter who was serving us to place three bottles in an exclusive bag for me to take home. I was surprised yet delightful for the rare gifts! And, till today I still have the SSOA bottles!  

Here, @Chedi we had seafood cuisines. We started with fish soup courtesy from the Chef. Then I had hearty salads as entree, followed by sumptuous grilled lobsters with lemon sauce and ended with lip smacking dessert of vanilla ice cream topped with strawberries and trays of chocolates. Wow! My belly was exceptionally full. We not only had a wonderful dinner with HRH, but most of all we had great time hearing and learning new things from HRH about his interests and also the history of his State. I was amazed with HRH vast knowledge of all the subjects and also the time HRH took to share it with us. 

But time past very quickly without we realizing it. It was closed to midnight and we soon bid goodbye to HRH with wishes of safe journey to The Grand Canyon. And on the way home, I opened the package which HRH handed to us. It was a gift which we will always value - a rare book personally signed by HRH! 

A Good Read from HRH. Patik menjunjung kasih Tuanku ...

A rare gift to cherish ...

Morning Treat @Kenya Home!

Life has been blissful since new year begins. Not only with a wonderful start surrounded by loved ones but well cared too by closed knitted friends, with unpretentious smiles and lots and lots of foodies! Alhamdulilah. 

And, today is of no exception. A group of us were invited to 'Kenya Home' by the ever loving hostess Mrs S. We were told it will be a very simple gathering. Yet, when we arrived at her new and welcoming residence, the spread of foodies was feast to our eyes. Surprisingly, she did all single handedly despite her full hands with four awesome kiddos that require her attention. Salute Mrs S! :D

At the dining table while savoring and enjoying the 'brunch' we exchanged notes from one topic to another. Being DS, among others our topics included the Charitable events that we wish to participate for this Year of the Horse. If last year, our AWG did very well where we managed to collect OR12K @AWG Bazaar for the Handicapped Children, so we also hoped that we could do the same or perhaps much better for this year. Insyallah.

From there, we exchanged notes about the most universal and sort after topic mainly cooking and foodies. With ladies from international background, I always believe that we can never go wrong when discussing about them. Hence, we probed our hostess about the refreshing Kenyan Chai which we were served with.  It was Kenyan black tea with mixture of spices which include cinnamon, cumin, ginger and nutmeg. I later found out that tea was the major cash crop that is grown in Kenya. Hence, it does not surprise me to obtain from  the net that "Kenya tea is ranked third major foreign exchange earner behind tourism and horticulture."

Another area of interest which we shared was perhaps to once in a while to have games during our social meet. But, we did not elaborate on this since we were too occupied with the Kenyan morning treat! Our hostess had prepared a table spread of foodies which include among others truly healthy dishes - the salads and the multicolored cut fruits which enticed our appetite. Also homemade sandwiches, croissants, kebabs, and several types of desserts!  

But, on the way home from the Kenyan treat, I recalled back on the topic of having and sharing games among us. I think it would be better if it is a traditional game from every nation. Whoosh! Indeed, I quite liked the idea since I personally feel that we could showcase our cultural heritage and shared with friends from across the world. Ting! Suddenly, my mind soared to our Malaysian indoor games the 'Congkak!' Perhaps, if I could share this game one day with them, that will be awesome. Hey! Why not? A session called Morning Treat @Malaysia Home :D 

Thus, I went home feeling blessed to be surrounded by wonderful friends, also feeling happy with the thought that I could share something with them when it's time for my turn to host the AASG Meet! Yeah :D Insyallah. 

     Me @Kenyan Treat with Buddies :D

Long Weekend! What did I Do?

We had a long weekend during Chinese New Year Celebration. I was asking myself, "What should I do to make time flies?" Also, I was contemplating not to just waste the time, instead to fill up the three days stretched holidays with worth while activities. 

Well, it begins with the holy Jumaat. Although I had a luncheon invitation after prayer time in the afternoon, the morning was filled up with fruitful activities from helping Mr Right for some home cooked breakfast and watching him watering the plants in the garden since our Mr G was on leave visiting his family. Then, we went to LuLu Hypermarket and bought some groceries to fill up the refrigerator for a week's consumption. 

Once done, while waiting to be ready for luncheon invitation @TTCrib, I made sure my wardrobes for that occasion were all in place including the scarves to match the blouse which I had chosen to wear! After that I watched two Korean movies which in a way provided me with some insights about life in both South and North Korea. They may be of the same origin but they're two different nations. Due to different political outlook and the borders that separate them, the people and their lifestyles were entirely different. Anyway, I truly enjoyed both the movies Sadder than Sad as well as Yalkae.

After watching the movies, Mr Right and I were ready for our Chinese New Year lunch at Madam TT's in an exclusive area, the PDO Camp! Indeed, I always like to drive up the rocky hills and then down to the valley full of palm trees. The cool and breezy wind during this time of the year were exceptionally blessing. They added soothing feelings to the lovely surroundings and enchanting environment that already captured my ever 'wondering' eyes searching for rare and beautiful sights! So captivating the scenes of fresh greens intertwining with sandy hill tops against the breezy wind that they appeared liken to feastful pictures to the eyes as well as melody to the soul. 

Coming back from TT's Crib, we stopped at Gary's Vet near Sabco, only to find that it had moved to Qurum Garden. And to add salt to the injury, it is closed on Friday! Oh Poor Gary, he must be 'starving' for half a day :( So, we decided to walk to a Pet Shop in Sabco to get a packet of Gary's food. We were looking for Royal Canine brand with 'neutered' sign but unfortunately there was none and like it or not we had to settle for the normal brand with the  hope that we'll get one from the Vet the next day when the clinic re-open. 

Oh! My Poor Gary, but just for a day okay and Mama will surely get the brand which you like ASAP :D When we reached home, little Gary was waiting for his foodies at the front door. When I poured the 'cereal' cat foods in his bowl, in just a few minutes all were gone. Indeed, I knew he was truly famished. It did not surprise me knowing full well that his normal eating pattern is every two to three hours. Hence, after that good dinner, we found him slept soundly in our room till dawn creeps in. Wow! I was feeling grateful just watching Gary curled up on my bed with full warm belly and feeling comfy (@^@)!

My Gary 'feeling comfy' after a good meal!

Through out the night, Gary slept with us. When Saturday morning comes, I told Mr Right that I wished to cook breakfast for us, yet he said, "Why not we go to Shatti Qurum and have our breakfast there?" Wow! Feeling blessed I quickly dressed in my casual wear and together we headed to my favourite weekend cafe the D'Arcy Kitchen. For a change, I asked for tuna melt instead of the Fish and Chips, whereas Mr Right's preference was beef sandwiches which was different than his normal order the omelette! Mine turned out great but Mr Right's selection proven fatal because it had lots of mayonnaise and caramelised onions which were not to his liking, but surprisingly I adored them! Thus, it ended up me eating the double portion more than usual :D

With the Big Breakfast, I wanted to forgo lunch. It was only wishful thinking because Mr Right once again took me for another weekend treat @Wasabi Sushi in Bareeq Shatti. This time we had Sushi Rolls with salmon and Dragon rolls with tuna accompanied by the ever soothing miso soup. There goes my diet which I however, never regret. He He He :) And just before we headed for home, I told Mr Right that I was craving for something sweet for tea time from Bread Talk. 

So we stopped at the outlet and bought some desserts there. I happily ate them at home while watching another Korean movie Too Beautiful To Lie. It was not only hilarious that brought laughter to the viewers, but it did tell us that old habits die hard. However, with time and some 'inspirations' from good people and beautiful surroundings the old habits slowly disappeared and turned to new leaf with new beginnings! Well, I enjoyed the movie which was full of hilarity, adventures and fascinating scenery that captured my heart and soul. Since I watched it via my iPad, and sometimes I smiled and laughed alone, nevertheless I at times received wierd grins and rolling eyes from my better half who was relaxing in the lounge and flipping through the newspapers :D

When it was time for dinner, again Mr Right asked me what I feel like eating? I smiled and later said, "I just want roast chicken. Homemade!" He rolled his eyes and yet he responded, "Sure Dear, we'll go down (to kitchen) after your evening prayer and you please ready with your kuah kicap!" I grinned at him and soon happily said, "Yes Sir!" And, pretty soon we had a delicious home cooked roast chicken. And my job was only to chop some chillies, onions and tomatoes. Then added in some soya sauce with a dash of lemon! But the roast chicken dish was truly nostalgic because that was one of the dishes which Mr Right cooked for me since we sat eyes on each other. And, until today he never fails to cook for me whenever I feel or crave of it. Big Thank You, Mr Right! Indeed, you're the rightful man for me and I truly love you for your love and your awesome deeds just for me and only me!

Well, Saturday had passed and we still have Sunday as part of the long weekend. Also, later in the evening we're going for dinner @Al Husn in Barr Jissah. So, that Sunday morning Mr Right asked me "Honey, What shall we do and where should we go, today?" Frankly, I have no answer to his question but somehow I responded, "Why not we scout for Gary's new clinic and also we should get his 'neutered' foodies!" He smiled and answered, "Okay!" With that positive respond I quickly took my bath and got ready for an outing. I dressed casually and waited for him to be ready, too. In the car, while driving, Mr Right said, "Shall we go to StarBuck near Qurum Beach?" Hearing the name of the American Cafe made me smiled and quickly nodded to him. And pretty soon we were in the cozy ambience overlooking the Gulf of Oman. The water at that time was high tide but there were wind. It was breezy and we truly enjoyed the beautiful cool Sunday morning while happily snacking our light snacks the tuna melt with crips. This scene and the foods reminded me of our lovely time in London where we frequented the StarBuck near his office each time I dropped by to say "Hello!"

When we arrived home after a good Sunday time out roaming the city of Muscat with foodies for Gary in our hands, we saw the sky turned to grey as it was already late evening. And, it was also time for us to get ready for a dinner with a friend. This time although I dressed in smart casual, but I made sure it was for night event. Hence, I chose a black velvet long skirt with mandarin Thai silk top. I asked Mr Right if I looked okay and his respond was "Okay!" Well, what do I expect? The word 'gorgeous!' Perhaps three decades ago. LOL!  Anyway, we looked forward to meeting this lovely friend who came for a holiday in Muscat. It has been more than a year since we last met. 

When we arrived, there she was waiting for us in a lovely flowing pinky wardrobe which was exceptionally elegant. I not only liked her sense of dressing and style, but I truly like her vibrant character which mirrored her well as a corporate person. I admired her style and always prayed for her success and that all her hardwork and never say never attitude will be paid off. Insyallah. While admiring her, I also believe with the saying "if there is a will, there will always be a way" for success. We soon embraced each other and reminiscing the past and how's life at home. While having hearty Hamburg Dinner, we also not forgotten to wish to each other "Happy New Year!" We felt it was still not too late to pray for each other's prosperity in life and also a brighter 2014. 

After the Dinner under the thousand stars, we said goodbye to each other with the hope to cross path again someday and sometime. We soon left the roof top  restaurant which was facing a magnificent midnight blue ocean on one end and the rugged mountains on the other with good feelings. 

And when I arrived home, there was a surprised gift waited for me depicting Chinese New Year  festivity. It was stacks of famous cookies namely pineapple tarts, walnut cookies and the evergreen mazola - some of the things which we sometimes took for granted when we are at home but sorely missed when we are away from home.

When I looked at the lip smacking cookies, they reminded me of the Chinese New Year Celebration at home-sweet-home where whenever we were invited to the Chinese friends' home, the cookies will never be forgotten as well as the kuaci and the groundnuts. Big Thank You to my friend for the sweet gift as remembrance from home. I uttered silently to me-self that the yummy cookies will last me for more than a week while I watched night movies. 

Oh! Thank You to Mr Right for his endless love and all my Dear Friends for the thoughts and beautiful friendships that we shared and cherished throughout the long weekend. It was not only fruitful but truly memorable. Indeed, I cherished savoring the cookies that finally wrapped up my long weekend, and for all the lovely activities that happened to me, I truly felt blissful to Allah SWT for all His Love, Grace and Blessings. Amin.

      Yummy Cookies for Nite Movies :D

Gong Xi Fatt Choi @Dhiab Street!

Well, it's Friday, 31st January 2014. Also the Chinese community is celebrating their Chinese New Year. I guess most of them if not all are celebrating the Re-Union Dinner with their loved ones since yesterday evening with wide spreads of meals! To all my Chinese friends, Gong Xi Fatt Choi and May this year of the Horse be prosperous and full of harmony :D

Anyway, this morning I had breakfast with Mr Right at home. He made omelette with lots of mushrooms for me and grilled beef which was my favourite. On my part, I only prepared the drinks which include juices and coffees as well as the baked beans and sweet corn! After the hearty breakfast and while waiting for afternoon to come for CNY lunch @TT, I watched Korean movies titled Sadder than Sad about true love and sacrifice which brought tears to my eyes. It was followed by Yalkae, a comedy with an every day plot about a mischievous school boy turns hero which at the end of the movies caused blurry vision to my eyes also due to 'emotional perspiration.' 

Once in a while with happy pearly tears welling the eyes, I strongly feel its good for my eye sight and to keep them from drying out. Also, I found out in psycologytoday.com that "for both men and women, tears are a sign of courage, strength and authenticity." Dr Judith Orloff wrote in her book that "Like the ocean, tears are salt water. Protectively, they lubricate your eyes, remove irritants, reduce stress hormones, and they contain antibodies that fight pathogenic microbes." Wow! I'm truly feeling blessed after a good pearly drops while viewing the emotional movies that went straight to my heart and soul!

Then, it was time for me to get ready for lunch @TT Crib in Dhiab Street. Although there was no theme whatsoever, since it was a CNY celebration which is synonyms to scarlet colour both Mr Right and I decided to wear something red to commemorate the auspicious occasion. I wore a red blouse which I bought from Beijing closed to ten years ago. Since I seldom wore it except on certain events, the silk+satin blouse which was nicely embroidered was still in good condition and most of all, it's contemporary! Mr Right also wore his red shirt, thus we both were feeling good in our attires to visit our Chinese friends Peter & ThaiTee @PDO Camp. As a token of appreciation to their invitation, I tagged along a box of Patchi for my friends and her daughter.

When we arrived, the lovely couple were already waiting for their guests with wide spread of dishes single handedly cooked my Madam TT! Under the canopy of palm trees we sat and enjoyed the sumptuous luncheon. The cool breezy wind that blown softly in the valley surrounded by rugged mountains added 'umph' to our already good appetite. Wow > There were delicious char kway teow, aromatic chicken rice with grilled duck, glutinous chicken wrap, chicken curry and of course the crispy prawn crackers, with lots of tit bits comprising of nuts and many baskets full of mandarin oranges. 

Not forgotten the pinky and yummy Kuih Angku which was Madam TT's signature dish. In every function which was held in our residence, she never come empty handed. There's always this dish which was made from white glutinous rice flour. Since the cake was always in pink and synonymous with Chinese New Year tradition, thus a little bit of pink coloring is necessary to be added to the dough. And the best part which I truly liked was the 'inti' or fillings which was made from mung beans. Wow! That's truly a mouthwatering and lip smacking dessert which a piece or two wouldn't be enough! LOL.

Indeed, by then my belly was already stuffed with great foodies. But, Madam TT did not stop there. She asked me if I liked 'telor masin' and I quickly nodded, without knowing that she'll cook that dish for us, too. After the hearty meals both main and dessert, I repeated the meals again because she already prepared the 'telor masin' with nasi lemak! Woosh, lucky me :D Although I was already full, yet I still ate the new meals which she offered me and Wallah! It was truly delicious. I then washed all of them down with a plate full of mandarin oranges and slices of juicy water melons. All in all, the lunch @Madam TT was exceptionally delicious and truly filled up my 'hollow' belly that ended up like full blown balloon. And, when its time to leave for home, I could feel my pants almost screaming like, "Help Me!!!" But, I said tenderly, "Please wait till we reach home sweet home!" :D

Beautiful Memories and Delicious Foodies at Dhiab Street, PDO Camp! Big TQ Madam TT for having us to celebrate the auspicious CNY 2014 - The Year of the Horse :D

Up, Close and Personal

Up! Close and Personal -(@^@)-

Ho! Ho! Ho! Who would that be?

Well, none other than me > Gary ...

"It has always been Me" purred He,

Dad's favourite and of course Mommy!

          The mischievous Gary :D

Up! Close & Personal -(@^@)-

Gary purred, "Mom, I'm truly happy"

"Oh! Yes!" replied Mom hopefully

"Indeed, with you I'm feeling comfy"

"Hmmm, on your bed especially ..."

         Gary's Favourite Spot!

When Readers' Meet ...

At last, we met after a month's break! For what and where? It's none other for foods and certainly not for tummy only, but more so for our thoughts! It was a monthly meeting for MQ BookClub members to discuss on books which we read. It was truly stimulating to share what we understand based on our perspectives and at the same time we gained more from the others who gave their views  which sometimes we have overlooked or never crossed our minds at all when we read the books from page to page! 

That's the power of knowledge sharing. This time the readers including me and the Ladies of Leisure LARRS gathered at N's Cozy Crib and the discussion centered on Elif Shafak's novel 'The Forty Rules of Love' which among others touched on the issues of woman who was turning 40 with her newfound happiness and the understanding of the true meaning of love at that age - the crucial Forty Something! Also not  surprising that one begins to question oneself  of one's existence and to better understand of one's self spiritually. 

Since the booked also touched on areas of Sufism and the poet Rumi, so the other readers did share a little bit on this which led to unfolding about Zoroastrianism and other spiritual mystics which was an eye opener to some of the readers. This discourse also provided wide spectrum of knowledge which in a way closer the gap for me who is longing for academic discourse with colleagues and intellectuals alike!

Apart from the precious knowledge gain, I also experience directly and indirectly valuable inputs through diverse cultural and tradition shared by the members from international backgrounds both from the east and west. This includes the variety of foodies from various nations that were served to us while happily discussing the books which we read, as well as sharing universal topics such as how we got our surnames and other jokes that always brought laughter in our two hours meeting which were truly fruitful! Indeed, this monthly meet which had been going on for two years since my arrival in this hospitable land taught me as a DS that every where we go, there will always be an opportunity to improve ourselves if we are willing to open up and embark with something of interests to us and share it with others who have same passion and likeness. 

Thus, I'm looking forward to our next meet where we will be discussing other books that had been agreed upon till summer time. They are To Kill a Mocking Bird by Harper Lee and followed by Gone Girl by Gillian Flynn. Since I have read the earlier classic of modern American literature which was published in 1960 and won the Pulitzer Prize, I truly look forward to having intellectual discourse with the MQ Readers. In fact, this novel has been made into a film in 1962 by director Robert Mulligan. And, ironically or perhaps   interestingly unlike any other authors who usually will continue publishing their books especially after they won an award, it is one and only Harper Lee's published novel. This is also, I think will be one of the areas for fruitful discourse as to why she stopped publishing and also "refused any personal publicity for herself or the novel since 1964" just four years after the stardom!

By the way, one of our readers proposed Gone Girl for March discourse. I have not read the book nor having any clue what is it all about. But, as readers we always happy to read new things and for that matter, I did search in the web as to have a glimpse of the book which was published in 2012. Wow! I found the extract in the pdf and feeling truly blessed.  This contemporary thriller novel was also written by an American lady writer. Among others this book narrates Nick Dunne, the protagonist as to whether he killed his wife, Amy? 

Well, I think Gone Girl will be an interesting read because for the very first time we will have a discourse on 'thriller' novel. All along our books among others centered upon movitational subjects our self discovery such as The Monk Who Sold His Ferrari by Robin Sharma and Aliph by Paulo Coelho. We also read a book which touched about one's life with moral issues in Tuesday with Morrie by Mitch Albom. All these books were good read! And, as for me it opens up a wide spectrum of understanding of myself. For example, I like the quotes in Aliph: "Don't be intermidated by other people's opinions. Only mediocrity is sure of itself, so take risks and do what you really want to do." Also, the remarkable statement by Paulo Coelho, "If you conquer yourself, then you conquer the world." 

Well, all in all I must say that the BookClub activity which I joined made me more aware of what is happening around the world and most interestingly I had something to look forward to every Tuesday, the last week of each month! And now, I must gather the other books in preparation for When Readers' Meet - Atlas Shrugged by Ayn Rand and Leonard Peikoff; Dodger by Terry Pratchett and finally the Heart of Darkness by Joseph Conrad.  These will last me till June, insyallah. By then, my brain will keep on working, absorbing all the   literature and surely will provide good foods for my thoughts. Just like I always need a balance diet for my body, the same goes for my brain - a balance input for thought which includes love,  spirituality, morality, thriller and laughter which is the best medicine for both body and mind!

              Me & My Books :D

Ladies in Red!

I saw them before and I saw them today. The ever stunning Ladies in Red! While welcoming and embracing them in Rumah Malaysia, my heart discretely echoes the following words of Sham Tabriz  in The Forty Rules of Love:

Ladies ...

East, West, South or North makes little difference. No matter what your destination, just be sure to make every journey a journey within. If you travel within, you'll travel the world wide world and beyond ...

Insyallah :)

Anyway, the stunning Ladies in Red aka Si Baju Merah were all here for the Perwakilan Muscat AGM. Although the core members are ladies from the Malaysian Embassy, yet in most cases we have Committee Members on Ad Hoc basis. And of course the rest of the Ladies in Red are our truly staunch supporter. They are our backbone! They are our pillars. They are our right and left hands. Without them, our organization could never function as well as now! Our decisions are based on concensus. They propose, they decide and they implement: All Together in Unity!

This goes well with our Silent Slogan "Berat Sama Di Pikul, Ringan Sama Di Jinjing." Also, we are fortunate to have the Ambassador as our Patron who provides guidance to all our events and so far, TYT Dato' Rustam is always there giving his support to us and our activities. 

       The Ladies in Red is synonymous to Perwakilan Muscat in Oman :)

Here, I composed a Malay poem especially meant for our Ladies in Red both former and present. To Thank Them All for the wonderful deeds which They Did, and to pray for their continuous support and togetherness for the Present and Future activities of Perwakilan Muscat.

Hai! Si Baju Merah ...

Langkahmu sopan menarik perhatianku

Keayuanmu kalian menawan kalbu

Siapalah Perwakilan Muscat tanpamu?

Mungkin cuma ada nama namun lesu

Kehadiranmu Si Baju Merah ...

Ibarat serikandi di medan perang

Bersemangat waja bagai Sang Helang

Sentiasa berusaha untuk cemerlang

Sesungguhnya kau buatku ceria dan girang!

Oh! Pertiwi Negara Si Baju Merah ...

Kau laksana matair penawar dahaga

Di padang nan gersang kau bercahaya

Kehadiranmu di sini bawa bahagia

Oh! Kau kebanggaan tanah air tercinta

Siapakah gerangan Si Baju Merah?

Aha! Keahliannya berbilang bangsa

Tanpa mengira Melayu, India atau Cina

Warganegara Malaysia semuanya sama 

Sentiasa bersatu untuk negara amalan kita

Kepadamu teman Si Baju Merah ...

Ku tadah tangan tanda kesyukuran 

Kerna dipertemukan dengan kalian

Ku jabat tanganmu penuh kesyahduan

Bersama ucapan Terima Kasih kuajukan.

Snaps @Perwakilan Muscat AGM 2014/15 in Rumah Malaysia on 27.01.2014. "Thank You, Ladies in Red!"

SuFi, My Song to You

I was reading Elif Shafak's novel The Forty Rules of Love for our MQ BookClub discourse. Among others Elif brought a subject on Sufi mystic through Rumi, the poet and his love for Shams of Tabriz. I was intrigued by the author's interest in Sufism "out of (her) intellectual curiosity." And according to her, the more she reads, the more she unlearned. That made her to think again and on this she said: "Not with your mind this time, but with your heart." Since then she has been interested in Sufism and spirituality and also found the 'light' which was all along inside her!

Before I had the opportunity to read Elif's novel which touched issues on sufism, I had once saw Sufi whirling in a theater. I was made to understand that it is a form of meditation originated among Sufis with "the aim to reach the source of all perfection." I was amazed with the performance where the dancer was spinning his body in repetitive circles. In Wiki, it was stated "while whirling, his arms are open ... ready to receive God's beneficence ... The human being has been created with love in order to love." On this the poet Rumi shared, "All loves are a bridge to Divine love. Yet, those who have not had a taste of it do not know."

I also love to listen to a Malay song titled SuFi by Damasutra where the lead singer was Bagio! I first listened to this song through FB when one of my virtual friends posted and shared it.  Although I don't  know much about song writing etc, but when I sang the lyrics following the song, I could feel the 'holiness' in the song. Strange but true! The melody is extremely enchanting while the lyrics somehow made me ponder to my Creator. S. Amin Shahab, who wrote the lyrics said, the song is based on Sufism.

SuFi Selangkah Tirai Kasihmu kubuka

Engkau serahkan cinta hingga dirimu tiada 

Kasih SuFi kau rela pilih derita di dunia

Biar rebah di hina kau tak berubah 

Kau menguasai selautan

Yang tersembunyi di genggaman

Nafi dan Isbat kau sandingkan

Sebagai tali pegangan

SuFi  kau hilang di pandangan

Ada di dalam kenikmatan

Engkau dan Dia pasti tidak akan terpisah 

Andai tertutup tirai SuFi

Yang terang tidak nampak terang

Inilah siksa menyakitkan sepanjang jalan

Inginku tempuh titianmu

Dari kekasih ke kekasih

Pengabdianku bersamamu Kasih 

Biar rebah dihina kau tak berubah

The SuFi song has deep meaning. It relates to man and his Creator. He was looking for true love and indeed, he found it. Once he found his love with Him, other matters no longer relevant although he was hated and ridiculed by others who don't understand or refused to understand. To the man, nothing could change him for he already found solace! Here, in Shams of Tabriz it was written: "The true Sufi is such that even when one is unjustly accused, attacked or condemned from all sides, he patiently endures, uttering not a single bad word about any of his critics. A Sufi never apportions blame. How can there be opponents or rivals or even 'others' when there is no 'self' in the first place? How can there be anyone to blame when there is only One!" 

Similarly, I'm of the view it matters not if we have been wrongful to ourselves. For as humans, we are bound to make mistakes. We are known to be an imperfect creature. Yet, once we're awakened, we must repent and seek for His Mercy for He is Merciful. In Surah Az Zumar, Ayat 53 (39:53) which is translated as "O My servants who have transgressed against their souls, do not despair of Allah's Mercy, for Allah Forgives all Sins. It is He Who is Forgiving, the Merciful!" In other words, our Creator Allah SWT truly loves us, His creations. Thus, in return we are bound to love Him for only Him who loves and understands us! We must be remorseful for our sins and sought for His Forgiveness and Mercy. We are created by Him with love in order to love Him in return! Indeed, as narrated in Shams of Tabriz "how we see Him is a direct reflection of how we see ourselves ... If we see Him as full of love and compassion, so are we!" Hence, my song to you - SuFi <3

Credit to Google for this beautiful image and song! Indeed, listening to SuFi song reminds me of Rumi's words: "All loves are a bridge to Divine Love. Yet, those who have not had a taste of it do not know!"